Tuesday 10 April 2012

Making Relationships Work


Making Relationships Work

Relationships begin with you, because you are half of any relationship you join. So start with yourself! Don't count on a relationship to "cure" a poor self-image. It won't work. But here are some measures that can:
Make an inventory of your best, most attractive qualities and affirm them to yourself often.
Avoid unrealistic standards and all-or-nothing thinking: "If I don't make an A on every test, I'm a total failure."


Challenge yourself to accept and absorb compliments: a simple "thank you" raises self-esteem; negations, such as, "You like this outfit? I think it makes me look dumpy," lower self-esteem.
Remember that there are no guarantees. Making gains requires taking risks. Seek out new experiences and people; then approach them with openness and curiosity. Each is an opportunity.
Don't expect overnight success. Close friendships and intimate love relationships both take time to develop.

Love and Relationships

Love and Relationships




Girls like guys who have great sense of humor. They feel comfortable with guys who are funny and can make them laugh. Try to laugh on your own mistakes. Try to be happy go lucky guys if you really want to take a toll on a girl.

Girls like beautiful Surprises.  If you want to win a girls heart give her sweet surprises. It can be anything from sending flowers to plan a dinner date. It doesn’t have to be anything big.

Make her feel comfortable.  Never ignore a girl when she is with you. Introduce her to your friends. Make her feel comfortable in your company.  Try not to take her for granted. Girl always needs attention lack of it can put you in trouble. Assure her and do small things to make sure she feels at ease.

Respect her and compliment her often. Women love compliments. Praise her by saying nice words like you look gorgeous or you are beautiful. Do not over do it as it may sound fake. Always show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

Pay for her always. I know it sounds strange but girls like guys who pay for them. She will insist to pay for half even then don’t let her pay. You can always say “next time girl”. This will certainly raise you in her eyes.

Be her prince and treat her like princess- Every girl dreams of her prince charming. For them life is like a fairy tale and someday there prince will come. The best way to make a girl fall for you is to be her prince charming they accept. The kind of guy she is looking for. Treat her like a princess. Send her txt, flowers and gifts. Send her sweet notes like “this is for my princess” or “you are most beautiful princess ever” and see this will do wonders for you.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart. So be patient and calm. Try to be honest with your feelings, as women always appreciate it. You have to be creative and imaginative to keep girl's interest in you. Last but not the least Love her like there's no one else out there for you and she is the only one that exist in your world.